Abandoning My Family For The One I Love.


Yesterday I announced that I was going to be bringing back the Book of Questions series I started a few years ago! If you missed that blog post then please click here to read it and to find out more about The Book Of Questions and why I’m doing this!

In this post I’m going to be answering question 1 from The 1987 Book Of Questions by Gregory Stock PH.D. .

Let’s just get stuck in!

For a person you loved deeply, would you be willing to move to a distant country knowing there would be little chance of seeing your friends and family again?

I think firstly we’re fortunate to now live in a society where it’s pretty much impossible to lose contact with people unless you actually want to so I don’t feel like this would be a problem in 2015.

However if it came down to it then no I wouldn’t.

The person I love deeply is just one person, I wouldn’t give everyone else up for just one person. I’d miss out on my beautiful little sisters growing up and my awesome Nephews too and I’d miss my grandparents and my parents and just everybody.

Love doesn’t always last and sometimes it’s not even real! I thought I was deeply in love with my last boyfriend but I wasn’t, how stupid would I feel if I made that mistake again?!

Leaving EVERYONE for one person isn’t something you can come back from easily.

However if the person I love deeply asked me to move away but I’d still see my friends and family from time to time then I’d definitely go, like I said at the start we now live in a society where it is impossible to lose contact with people so I wouldn’t really feel like I was missing out on anything.

My Dad already lives in France with my little sisters so I only see them one or two times a year so I’m used to doing the long distance thing with family and friends.

But if there was little chance of seeing them then no, I wouldn’t do it!

What about you, would you do it? Let me know in the comments below, on Twitter @MissCharlotteEm or on any of my other social media sites which you can find by clicking here!

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